Saturday, January 30, 2010

2 Magical Ways to Control Ejaculation Mentally - Mind Over Matter!

Every man has experienced a quick climax or ejaculation during intercourse. This can be embarrassing moment especially if you're with a partner that you haven't been with for a long time. Instead of worrying about why you finished so quickly and what it's going through the mind of your partner, you should take a few minutes to be aware of how you can prevent this in the future. Heres How:

1. Be very aware of your breathing patterns during intercourse up till the moment of ejaculation. If you're able to pay close attention to your breathing consciously you can greatly extend the length of your sexual sessions. You may notice that when you're rapidly breathing you are more excited and aroused.

What you can do is bring down that rapid breathing to a more slow and calm nature which will subconsciously tell your mind that you're not overexcited. By focusing on your breathing you can delay ejaculation and also take your mind off of the physical sensations to your genitals. One good way of doing us is to align your breathing pattern with the same pattern of your partners breathing.

Not only will this help you control your breathing, it will also create a more closer connection with your partner as they will probably notice the similarities of breathing. You can also add vocal sound while your breathing and exhaling which will trigger a more powerful orgasm that is built up during the entire lovemaking session.

2. Another way to mentally control your ejaculation is through being aware of your particular arousal levels. Although this requires some thinking and practice, if perfected could seriously advance your sexual skills and dramatically increase your duration of intercourse. You may want to start by experimenting with this through masturbation. What you want to do is notice how your penis moves during different sensations and how your arousal levels change right before orgasm.

Generally, there are 4 different directions stages. It starts out by lengthening that turns to swelling. Next comes a full erection and near climax you have what is called a rigid erection. If you are at a rigid stage you are probably very stiff and hot. You will be getting close to ejaculation. The reason why you want to knows these stages is so that once you reach that last stage you are able to revert your arousal levels to an earlier stage allowing you to last much longer.

So as you can see, your mental aspect can control some parts of your sexual sessions. Another thing that can contribute to how you are able to control ejaculation is your physical body. If you can get in the habit of keeping your genitals physically healthy through things like penis exercises you will have a major impact on your ability to determine when you would like to climax.

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1 Comments:

Blogger Zaharia said...

I've heard that garlic increases ejaculation power and taste.

Is this right?? Don't joke, cus if true, i'd really to work every day smelling bad :P I'd be a natural garlic bunch :P jajaja

Thanks

February 13, 2010 9:45 AM  

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